definitions of what is erotic and what is not ,hummm can't help you there.
know one thing though what women think is erotic and men do is not the same ..have just looked though the erotic pool on flickr and confirmed this!!
One 'fact' or is it an aside I learned about male and female response in a sexual nature is this: women are turned on by touch - while men are turned on by visual stimulation.
Explains alot when you think about it.