Aren't birthdays a pain - I mean when they come round it's never yours is it !! and then as in mycase you discover that all these traps ..like putting birthdays in your phone and on your Ical ..are not this particular one .... so as you can guess I missed it ..ah well managed to save the day by printing a 'personal' birthday card of a photo I'd taken ..the friend in question was well pleased ..and said she'd keep it for posterity ..so Result then!!